The truth about ending a marriage

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Getting a divorce can have a significant impact on yourself, your spouse and any children that you may have. Therefore, it is important to understand the true impact that ending a marriage can have. Let’s take a look at some statements that many people in Arizona and elsewhere tend to believe about divorce despite the fact that they aren’t true.

Unhappiness in a marriage is a sign that it will fail

It is almost a given that you will experience both positive and negative emotions during a marriage. According to a national study conducted in the 1980s, 86% of couples who stayed in unhappy marriages eventually came to find joy in their relationships.

It’s the husband who wants a divorce

There is a perception that men are more likely to pursue a divorce. However, research suggests that women initiate two out of every three divorces in the United States. Women may be more likely to end their marriages in states where they can retain their role as their children’s primary caregivers. Furthermore, it is more common for men to have issues with substance abuse, to commit adultery or take other actions that might drive their wives away.

Children of divorce do better in their own relationships

Children of divorce are actually more likely to get divorced themselves compared to those who grew up with parents who stayed together. This is likely because they don’t see marriages as relationships between two people who are committed to each other for life. Furthermore, a child might have diminished interpersonal skills that hamper his or her ability to enter into a long-term romantic relationship.

If you are thinking about ending your marriage, a family law attorney might be able to help you obtain a favorable divorce settlement. This person might also provide advice about how to shield your children from as much of the divorce process as possible. In many cases, it can be easier to accomplish this goal by coming to a settlement outside of court.